While the `DIFF_FROM_ITERATORS` does make it shorter to implement the
various `git_diff_foo_to_bar` functions, it is a complex and unreadable
beast that implicitly assumes certain local variable names. This is not
something desirable to have at all and obstructs understanding and more
importantly debugging the code by quite a bit.

The `DIFF_FROM_ITERATORS` macro basically removed the burden of having
to derive the options for both iterators from a pair of iterator flags
and the diff options. This patch introduces a new function that does the
that exact and refactors all callers to manage the iterators by
themselves.

As we potentially need to allocate a shared prefix for the
iterator, we need to tell the caller to allocate that prefix as soon as
the options aren't required anymore. Thus, the function has a `char
**prefix` out pointer that will get set to the allocated string and
subsequently be free'd by the caller.

While this patch increases the line count, I personally deem this to an
acceptable tradeoff for increased readbiblity.